Heading off to dinner or a movie-- I drive-- and we discover on the way we don't want to stop talking and singing with the radio and driving, so we end up just going where the freeway takes us before turning around and h... see more >>
Heading off to dinner or a movie-- I drive-- and we discover on the way we don't want to stop talking and singing with the radio and driving, so we end up just going where the freeway takes us before turning around and heading back to snuggle by candlelight and listen to my Roxy Music records
Drinks at a cool bar, watch the sunset, walk around in nature (park or beach), see music if still possible, gaze a lot at each other, eat gourmet appetizers, go to a bookstore or exhibit, talk
I would 99% of the time be very turned off by the idea of a cliché "candlelight dinner followed by a walk on the beach".. which seems to me to resemble some drawn out noontime soap opera cameo. The flint tooth... see more >>
I would 99% of the time be very turned off by the idea of a cliché "candlelight dinner followed by a walk on the beach".. which seems to me to resemble some drawn out noontime soap opera cameo. The flint toothed grinning facade of a commercial selling canned aerosol silver bullets strategically aimed at making people feel they need to keep buying stuff to feel luckier in love. The antiaphrodsiacal effects of such suggestions are, for the most part, very real.*
*But then there's the prospect of a first date with that one special person. When you're with your person, everywhere you can possibly go together is the best date ever. Long as you're together.
Simple, you tell me your favourite thing to eat in the world (that you can't make for yourself) and we'll cook it together. You pick the cheesiest and/or scariest film that we'll watch while eating whatever it is we made... see more >>
Simple, you tell me your favourite thing to eat in the world (that you can't make for yourself) and we'll cook it together.
You pick the cheesiest and/or scariest film that we'll watch while eating whatever it is we made.
Either we have a great meal and a rubbish film or a rubbish meal with a great movie.
Then anal.
What's your ideal first date?
Meet somewhere where the volume is such that I can hear you (one of the reasons why it's so hard to meet someone at a club), so we can chat. Or perhaps a video meeting if conditions don't change anytime soon,...
Because of the whole COVID19 pandemic, my date idea is a simple one. Order out, probably Chinese or Pizza. Hell, I'd might even just cook something at home for us. Then sit down and watch a movie(s). I have both Netflix... see more >>
Because of the whole COVID19 pandemic, my date idea is a simple one. Order out, probably Chinese or Pizza. Hell, I'd might even just cook something at home for us. Then sit down and watch a movie(s). I have both Netflix and Disney+. Drinks in the house
I believe we should start out at a local coffeehouse, not a Starbucks, or chain if it can be helped. Barnes-n-Nobel's I could see. Get to know each other a bit and see where it goes from there.
Anything I didn't have to plan! Planning a perfect first date is an art form and anyone who can do it well gets bonus points. There should be time to talk and the atmosphere should inspire creative conversation, but also... see more >>
Anything I didn't have to plan! Planning a perfect first date is an art form and anyone who can do it well gets bonus points. There should be time to talk and the atmosphere should inspire creative conversation, but also there should be something to do in case talking isn't going well. It's sometimes useful to have natural "outs" (a way to politely end the date throughout the night), but it's also nice to leave it open ended in case things are going well. The atmosphere should make it easier to flirt and allow some pda but shouldn't make you feel pressured to be more sexual than you feel comfortable with. As a side note, I've never been on a perfect first date, so there's no pressure really; however, I would be extremely impressed if someone did plan the perfect first date.
If you leave it up to me to plan it, we will probably either go clubbing with my friends or to an amusement park (if it's warm enough).
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Going to a gig or someone spooky like a graveyard and hang out with drinks 😈 and listen to music whilst chilling
I don't really have an ideal first date. Where we go and what we do is going to depend a lot on who they are, what they like and where our interests overlap.
My ideal first date would be first a walk next to the sea shore. Than a proposition to watch a movie she HAS to see.After the movie I will introduce her on my parents to have a short 'hello' .Then I hope she can play che... see more >>
My ideal first date would be first a walk next to the sea shore. Than a proposition to watch a movie she HAS to see.After the movie I will introduce her on my parents to have a short 'hello' .Then I hope she can play chess, if she can't I all ask her if I should teach her. We end the night with a long conversarion....and then
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