Honestly, I'd be down for just talking and sharing stories about life and our take on this world we all inhabit. Basically just getting to know each other better. After that, maybe a movie or a show - once the pandemic i... see more >>
Honestly, I'd be down for just talking and sharing stories about life and our take on this world we all inhabit. Basically just getting to know each other better. After that, maybe a movie or a show - once the pandemic is over
my perfect first date, hmm maybe a nice dinner or a concert. Taking a walk in the darkness maybe a cemetery and seeing where things head. Warning we hit it off I get very touchy feely and I love kissing
Taking during a road trip or dinner or walk. No pressure, drinks and food on me. Then maybe a cocktail or dessert. I love eyes and conversation. I know all the haunts in New England. It would be nice to get to know someo... see more >>
Taking during a road trip or dinner or walk. No pressure, drinks and food on me. Then maybe a cocktail or dessert. I love eyes and conversation. I know all the haunts in New England. It would be nice to get to know someone.
Something simple. Some coffee. A drink.. no pressure. Just see if you click and go from there. I mean a long walk around a park or NYC. Actually get to just talk and see what you have in common and if you have any chemis... see more >>
Something simple. Some coffee. A drink.. no pressure. Just see if you click and go from there. I mean a long walk around a park or NYC. Actually get to just talk and see what you have in common and if you have any chemistry
First date can be a picnic or the park just talking with each other having lunch something simple and no pressure . Go to some cool aquarium/fish store I like salt water fish as a my hobby it's relaxing
Heading off to dinner or a movie-- I drive-- and we discover on the way we don't want to stop talking and singing with the radio and driving, so we end up just going where the freeway takes us before turning around and h... see more >>
Heading off to dinner or a movie-- I drive-- and we discover on the way we don't want to stop talking and singing with the radio and driving, so we end up just going where the freeway takes us before turning around and heading back to snuggle by candlelight and listen to my Roxy Music records
I would 99% of the time be very turned off by the idea of a clich "candlelight dinner followed by a walk on the beach".. which seems to me to resemble some drawn out noontime soap opera cameo. The flint toothed... see more >>
I would 99% of the time be very turned off by the idea of a clich "candlelight dinner followed by a walk on the beach".. which seems to me to resemble some drawn out noontime soap opera cameo. The flint toothed grinning facade of a commercial selling canned aerosol silver bullets strategically aimed at making people feel they need to keep buying stuff to feel luckier in love. The antiaphrodsiacal effects of such suggestions are, for the most part, very real.*
*But then there's the prospect of a first date with that one special person. When you're with your person, everywhere you can possibly go together is the best date ever. Long as you're together.
Simple, you tell me your favourite thing to eat in the world (that you can't make for yourself) and we'll cook it together. You pick the cheesiest and/or scariest film that we'll watch while eating whatever it is we made... see more >>
Simple, you tell me your favourite thing to eat in the world (that you can't make for yourself) and we'll cook it together.
You pick the cheesiest and/or scariest film that we'll watch while eating whatever it is we made.
Either we have a great meal and a rubbish film or a rubbish meal with a great movie.
Then anal.
What's your ideal first date?
Meet somewhere where the volume is such that I can hear you (one of the reasons why it's so hard to meet someone at a club), so we can chat. Or perhaps a video meeting if conditions don't change anytime soon,...
Because of the whole COVID19 pandemic, my date idea is a simple one. Order out, probably Chinese or Pizza. Hell, I'd might even just cook something at home for us. Then sit down and watch a movie(s). I have both Netflix... see more >>
Because of the whole COVID19 pandemic, my date idea is a simple one. Order out, probably Chinese or Pizza. Hell, I'd might even just cook something at home for us. Then sit down and watch a movie(s). I have both Netflix and Disney+. Drinks in the house
I believe we should start out at a local coffeehouse, not a Starbucks, or chain if it can be helped. Barnes-n-Nobel's I could see. Get to know each other a bit and see where it goes from there.
Anything I didn't have to plan! Planning a perfect first date is an art form and anyone who can do it well gets bonus points. There should be time to talk and the atmosphere should inspire creative conversation, but also... see more >>
Anything I didn't have to plan! Planning a perfect first date is an art form and anyone who can do it well gets bonus points. There should be time to talk and the atmosphere should inspire creative conversation, but also there should be something to do in case talking isn't going well. It's sometimes useful to have natural "outs" (a way to politely end the date throughout the night), but it's also nice to leave it open ended in case things are going well. The atmosphere should make it easier to flirt and allow some pda but shouldn't make you feel pressured to be more sexual than you feel comfortable with. As a side note, I've never been on a perfect first date, so there's no pressure really; however, I would be extremely impressed if someone did plan the perfect first date.
If you leave it up to me to plan it, we will probably either go clubbing with my friends or to an amusement park (if it's warm enough).
I'm a pretty simple man, so I'd just wanna grab some drinks and laugh and talk. It could definitely be at a nice restaurant, so we'd have something memorable to look back on if things worked out permanently, but overall... see more >>
I'm a pretty simple man, so I'd just wanna grab some drinks and laugh and talk. It could definitely be at a nice restaurant, so we'd have something memorable to look back on if things worked out permanently, but overall the conversation has to be right by the end of the date